5:40 pm. I get a call from Robert that says, "Hey, I'm parking right now." So I come down the steps and meet him @ Public Safety. We walk up the steps and he says, "you know what time it is, right?", as he looks at my wardrobe which consisted of sweat pants, a jersey, and a cocked pony tail to the right side. I go, "I know, I know! It'll only take me a second to get ready." So we get to my room and I go in the bathroom and change into jeans a t-shirt. We finally leave about 5-10 minutes later and head off to get food for my parents. First we stop at Imo's for pizza, wings, and garlic cheese bread, then we make our way to Bread Company for brocolli-cheddar soup for my mom. (apparently she had had a headache ever since the night before) So we finally get over to my house around 20 minutes- 1/2 hr from the time we left. At first, my dad opened the door for us and let us in. Robert introduced himself to him and we made our way to the couches after setting the food down in the kitchen. About 10-15 minutes later, my mom comes out of her room and I say hi. Then, I introduce her to Robert and he proceeds to shake her hand and says, "It's finally nice to meet you." We stay and watch the game from the 2nd quarter until after the game. In the meantime, he was interrogated by both of my parents, but especially my mom. The one thing she said so many times that it started to scare me was, "You know that THAT'S my baby you have over there right? You know that's my baby, right?" She continued to say it through the course of the entire night. I felt really uneasy by the whole situation, but dealt with it, like I thought I should have. We finally leave and make our way to my sister's bf's apt. We only stayed for a few minutes, because she just wanted to "meet him". Finally we made our way back to the dorms around 10 o'clock. Vicki called me and Robert asked me to give the phone to her. He said," I apologize for how I acted last night." Then, he handed the phone back to me after getting a response on the other line. He stayed for a few hours and finally left @ 1:30. After he left, I went up to Maria's room because I knew Vicki was in there. We talked about why he was originally upset with her and me, and then a huge discussion got started. I said that because of all of the attention that was drawn to her, it was also drawn to me. And that "that's why he was upset. He just saw all of these guys around me and didn't know how to act, I guess." But once I told her how when i was ready to go and she was pulling away, she didn't really apologize but gave me an excuse." Well, I mean, I DID have something to drink, I WAS drunk, and honestly, I really didn't give a Fuck." I said, "I know! You didn't have to tell me that. Trust me, I know." Then she made an attempt to clarify. "It's not like I don't care about YOU, but I just didn't care about ANYTHING or how ANYONE looked at me, you know?" I told her that I felt that @ one point in time, she WAS acting a little immature and if she was aware of that. The "I-Don't-Give-A-Fuck" answer came up again. I guess I should have known. I think I may have been wrong in telling her my personal opinion, but at the same time, I WAS just looking out for her and her well being. Because in my mind, you DO need to give a fuck every once in a while, u know?" After finally leaving the room, my heart was not put at ease. I don't think any conclusion was reached, and that she's still upset. Hopefully we can get everything cleared up soon. What VERY, VERY, VERY, interested and action-packed weekend.
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baby I was so nervous and I was even more nervous when your mom kept saying that you know that that's my baby , and she was drilling me with questions back to back. I felt as if I had done something wrong, but I played it cool and I answered her questions as if I had been through this with her before and I even tried to show her that I knew a little about the family by talking about some things that her mom was interested in and talking to her dad so we would have some things in common while we watched the super bowl. so it was a bit of a scare.. but I overcame the obstacles..
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